A confession about wearing lingerie for a first date, keeping clear boundaries, and showing up for yourself instead of approval.
It was just a first date.
The kind with low stakes on paper and surprising emotional friction in real life.
I almost canceled.
Not because of him, but because I did not want to perform for the moment.
The shift was internal.
I wore something intentional and went in with clear boundaries and less need to prove anything.
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